{"id":3379,"date":"2025-05-03T13:51:04","date_gmt":"2025-05-03T13:51:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/here-and-now-app.de\/?p=3379"},"modified":"2025-07-24T08:54:40","modified_gmt":"2025-07-24T08:54:40","slug":"energie-der-freund-der-dich-ghostet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/here-and-now-app.de\/en\/energie-der-freund-der-dich-ghostet\/","title":{"rendered":"Energy \u2013 The friend who ghosts you"},"content":{"rendered":"
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    Energy \u2013 The friend who ghosts you<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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    A normal day with ME\/CFS \u2013 in WhatsApp messages
    <\/strong>
    Members of the WhatsApp group<\/p>

    Energy
    And me
    ————<\/p>

    Me:<\/em>
    Hey, Energy? Do you have time for me today?<\/strong><\/p>

    Energy:
    <\/em>Yep. Quickly. What's up?
    <\/strong>
    Me:
    <\/em>A shower would be nice
    <\/strong>
    Energy:
    <\/em>I can brush my teeth. Shower and wash your hair? Crazy girl. That's not going to happen. Sorry.
    <\/strong>
    Me:
    <\/em>Okay. Then just a quick bite to eat?
    <\/strong>
    Energy:
    <\/em>Only if you don't stand up. And hey, no cutting bread!
    <\/strong>
    Me:
    <\/em>Sitting is fine. And just cornflakes
    <\/strong>
    Energy:
    <\/em>And no extra actions while eating
    <\/strong>
    Me:
    <\/em>All right. Just chewing
    <\/strong><\/p>

    2 Minuten later<\/em>
    <\/strong>
    Energy:
    <\/em>Battery's about to die!
    <\/strong>
    Me:
    <\/em>WTF, did I do something wrong again?!
    <\/strong>
    Energy:
    <\/em>NO scrolling on your phone!
    <\/strong><\/p>

    2 hours later
    <\/em>
    Me:
    <\/em>I'm back. You too?
    <\/strong>
    Energy:
    Nope<\/strong><\/p>

    In the evening
    <\/em>
    Me:<\/em>
    Energy! Please... at least for a little while? I'd like to watch another episode of a show<\/strong><\/p>

    Energy:<\/em>
    Lol. Look at the ceiling. That's your soap opera.<\/strong><\/p>

    Me:<\/em>
    Energy?<\/strong><\/p>

    Energy:<\/em>
    …<\/strong><\/p>

    Me:
    <\/em>A*hole!
    <\/strong>
    Energy has left the group
    <\/em>
    ———–

    Conclusion
    <\/strong>ME\/CFS often feels like chatting with a friend who constantly ghosts you \u2013 just when you need them most.
    But hey, at least they haven't blocked me completely yet!<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Ein ganz normaler Tag mit ME\/CFS \u2013 in WhatsApp-Nachrichten.<\/p>\n

    Mitglieder in der WhatsApp-Gruppe: Energy und ich<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3422,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"elementor_header_footer","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"disabled","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"default","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[25],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3379","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-real-talk-fatigue"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/here-and-now-app.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3379","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/here-and-now-app.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/here-and-now-app.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/here-and-now-app.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/here-and-now-app.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3379"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/here-and-now-app.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3379\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3635,"href":"https:\/\/here-and-now-app.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3379\/revisions\/3635"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/here-and-now-app.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3422"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/here-and-now-app.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3379"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/here-and-now-app.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3379"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/here-and-now-app.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3379"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}