- Real Talk Fatigue
- May 3, 2025
Energy – The friend who ghosts you
A normal day with ME/CFS – in WhatsApp messages
Members of the WhatsApp group
Energy
And me
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Me:
Hey, Energy? Do you have time for me today?
Energy:
Yep. Quickly. What's up?
Me:
A shower would be nice
Energy:
I can brush my teeth. Shower and wash your hair? Crazy girl. That's not going to happen. Sorry.
Me:
Okay. Then just a quick bite to eat?
Energy:
Only if you don't stand up. And hey, no cutting bread!
Me:
Sitting is fine. And just cornflakes
Energy:
And no extra actions while eating
Me:
All right. Just chewing
2 Minuten later
Energy:
Battery's about to die!
Me:
WTF, did I do something wrong again?!
Energy:
NO scrolling on your phone!
2 hours later
Me:
I'm back. You too?
Energy:
Nope
In the evening
Me:
Energy! Please... at least for a little while? I'd like to watch another episode of a show
Energy:
Lol. Look at the ceiling. That's your soap opera.
Me:
Energy?
Energy:
…
Me:
A*hole!
Energy has left the group
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Conclusion
ME/CFS often feels like chatting with a friend who constantly ghosts you – just when you need them most.
But hey, at least they haven't blocked me completely yet!

